William "Billy" G. Parker , 64, lost his fight with cancer Wednesday, Aug.
25, 2010 with his mother, his brother and his family and friends by his side,
at home, the way he wanted. By any measure, it was a remarkable fight, by
a remarkable fighter. It has been a nine-year battle against an enemy which
would have overwhelmed anyone else a long time ago. But Bill never gave
an inch. He fought, and endured, and went on. But that's Bill. He fought to
save lives all his life. What he put himself through in the past few years with
experimental treatment and surgery will continue to be his legacy, saving
more lives into the future. He advanced the science, using his body as the
lab. He was born in Lewiston, Maine, Dec. 19, 1945, the son of John T. and
Beatrice (Ricker) Parker. On Dec. 13, 1977, he married Christine Leach,
who predeceased him in January 2008. He was predeceased by his father,
John Parker, in May, 1996, and a nephew, John T. Parker, in September
1986. He is survived by his mother, Betty Parker of Canterbury Inn, St.
Johnsbury; a daughter, Meloney Parker of Massachusetts, whom he dearly
loved; and a brother, Michael Parker and wife Judy of North Danville;
nieces and nephews; and a legion of friends, co-workers and neighbors. He
always wanted to be a firefighter. His mom tells of him riding the fire trucks
as a teenager during summers in Maine helping the department burn off
farm fields. The family moved to St. Johnsbury in 1959, and he graduated
in 1964 from St. Johnsbury Academy, where he was elected to student
council and many other student clubs. While he was still in school, he went
to work for the St. Johnsbury Fire Department. He was drafted, and served
his nation in the U.S. Army, in Vietnam from 1965-67. When he was done
serving his country, he came back to the fire department to continue to
serve his community. He started as a call fireman, rose to assistant chief,
and upon retirement in 1996 became acting chief of SJFD. He spent 30
years working for us, to keep us and our homes and businesses safe. No
one counted the number of lives he saved. In 1981, when the gas plant on
South Main Street caught fire and the big gas tanks were getting hot, Billy
Parker climbed to the top of the tank, and turned the valves that shut the
gas off. In doing so, he prevented an explosion that could have leveled half
of St. Johnsbury. He was proud of the certificate of recognition and
gratitude signed by the board of selectmen and the certificate of thanks
from the St. Johnsbury Kiwanis Club, recognizing his heroism. And on his
off days, Bill managed the paint department at Mayo's Decorating. The
walls of many of the houses in St. J, inside and out, bear the colors he
mixed. But 30 years of public service wasn't enough for him. He wanted to
do more. The 24/7 bug was in his veins, and he started working the
ambulance crew, at CALEX. Still he wanted to do more, so at age 50-plus
he went back to school, and graduated with high honors as a paramedic
from New Hampshire Technical Institute, as then the oldest person
graduated in that field. At NHTI he was president of the Paramedic Student
Organization, and a peer tutor, while he was working for both CALEX and
Littleton Hospital. He received the Cheryl Kellogg award, the David Turner
Award, and the Leadership team award at NHTI. He was a nationally
registered paramedic, a member of the American Legion, the Kiwanis Club
of St. Johnsbury, and a member of the EMS board of directors. For 10
years, he administered the Santa Fund. He was a member of Phi Kappa
Theta National Honor Society. He worked for CALEX, for Lyndon Rescue,
for Littleton hospital, and for Upper Valley ambulance. Again, no one
counted the number of lives he saved, the suffering he eased, and the pain
he relieved. He didn't count them. He just went back in - to the fire, to the
wreck, to the apartment where someone was hurt and in trouble and
needed the expert kindness of a stranger. And more than once, off duty, he
beat both the ambulance crew and the fire department to the aid of a fallen
senior. Everyone who knew him knew that if you wanted someone covering
your back, the best person you could have was Billy Parker. You could
count on him. He was a strong supporter of the Relay for Life, and proudly
participated every year. In lieu of flowers, it was his wish contributions be
made to CALEX, or to the Gene McDonough Scholarship fund. A gathering
of friends and family will be held in his honor on Saturday, Aug. 28, from 5
to 8 p.m. at Sayles Funeral Home. He will be buried with military honors
Monday at 11 a.m. at Mt. Pleasant Cemetery. His neighbor, NVRH
Chaplain Lynn Burgess, will officiate. Fire department and ambulance
groups are encouraged to attend, as well as others who wish.
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