Nelson Ransome Lay Jr. of Sutton died peacefully on Sunday,
February 6, 2011, at the age of 85 in St. Johnsbury. He was born
on September 14, 1925, in Ft. Covington, New York, one of three
children born to Nelson and Isabelle (Mayberry) Lay. The family
relocated to Island Pond where Mr. Lay's father was employed as
an engineer for the Canadian National Railroad. The move to
Island Pond introduced Mr. Lay to the joys of hunting and fishing,
pastimes he enjoyed immensely for the entirety of his life,
culminating in the bagging of a 13-point trophy buck at the tender
age of 65. The buck garnered top prize for "most atypical rack" at
the Vermont Sportsman Show and today hangs prominently in the
family camp at Seymour Lake alongside another trophy buck and
several antlers of other deer bagged by Mr. Lay over the many
joyful seasons he spent hunting the woods of northern Vermont.
Following the outbreak of World War II, Mr. Lay left high school
and joined the Navy at age 17. He served in the Pacific theater as
a radioman and gunner on a PBY Hedron Airframe. After the war
ended, he returned to Vermont and finished his high school
studies, graduating from St. Johnsbury Academy. He later
attended the University of Vermont and received his associates
degree from Champlain College. Mr. Lay became one of the
earliest Vermont State Police troopers, beginning his career in
Bradford in 1949. During the height of his active duty as a
detective, he was recognized as the top homicide detective in
Vermont. He was a top marksman with a pistol and competed in
national competitions. Mr. Lay retired as a captain and troop
commander of the St. Johnsbury barracks, Troop C, following
more than 30 years of distinguished service. Perhaps the best
legacy of his tenure with the State Police was his belief that
people, especially youngsters, were deserving of a second
chance and were better served by a well-timed "talking to" than a
ticket or permanent arrest record. Mr. Lay married Shirley Carey
in Montpelier on October 4, 1952, and together, they raised five
children, living in multiple Vermont communities including
Bradford, Rutland, Waterbury Center, and Sutton, moves
necessitated by Mr. Lay's career in the State Police. After building
their dream home in Sutton, Mr. Lay declined career moves that
would necessitate relocation and on retirement from the State
Police maintained his "gentleman's farm" there. In retirement, he
served as a rural mail carrier, on the Sutton select board, and
drove a school bus. He enjoyed many outdoor activities
throughout his life, and with the help of good friends, built a
summer camp for his family on Lake Seymour. He spent many
hours listening to the Boston Red Sox on the radio, especially the
games against the Yankees. He is survived by his wife of 58
years, Shirley, of Sutton; five children: Douglas Lay and his wife,
Kathy, of Newport Center, Maureen Russell Quechee, Theresa
Lay-Sleeper and her husband, Ron, of Cabot, Daniel Lay and his
wife, Staci, of Brunswick, Maine, and David Lay of Sutton; by
eight grandchildren: Devin and Derick Lay, Morgan Russell,
Ethan, Orion, and Theron Lay-Sleeper, and Declan and Hannah
Lay; by his sister Sherwood Riddell and her husband, Doug, of
Denver, Colorado; by sisters-in-law Margaret Larned of Florida
and Betty Blouin of Montpelier; and by many nieces and nephews
throughout the country. He was predeceased by his sister Norma
Smith of Tacoma, Washington. Friends may honor Mr. Lay by
calling on the family at the Guibord Funeral Home in Lyndonville
on Monday, February 21, from 6 to 8 p.m. On Tuesday, February
22, at 11 a.m., a Mass will be celebrated at St. Elizabeth's
Catholic Church in Lyndonville. Interment will be in the Sutton
Village Cemetery on May 28 at 1 p.m. Should friends desire,
contributions in his memory may be made to St. Elizabeth's
Catholic Church, 49 Winter Street, St. Johnsbury, Vermont 05819,
or to St. Johnsbury Health and Rehab Center (marked for the
Employee Activity Fund), 1248 Hospital Drive, St. Johnsbury,
Vermont 05819.
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